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triplestar777's avatar

i watched that video essay about the persistence of decay around a month ago, im glad i found it talked about here.

there really is something very liberating about accepting that everything ends someday, all the things we hold dear, all the things we think will last forever, they will all decay, often times transforming into something completely different or disappearing from our lives all together.

theres a village that me and my grandparents used to go to every summer, i had a favourite place here, somewhere a little outside of the village atop a small hill overlooking the river.

im here in this village again this summer, but its completely different, both of my grandparents have passed away a long time ago, so im mostly alone in the house. yesterday i went to visit that place i used to love, and i found it destroyed, turns out theyre building something there so they are doing construction along the shore of the river.

seeing that completely ruined my mood, i walked for half an hour aimlessly thinking about how every thing is different now, how ill never sit by that place again, or how going to this village would never be the same without my grandparents here, then after a while i sort of accepted it.

when theres nothing you can do the only thing to do is accept that you cant do anything. that acceptance brought me a lot of peace, im sure if i didnt accept it this would be mentally torturing me for at least a few days.

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jordan's avatar

I always love your thoughts on the media that you share with us, you're the reason I got substack actually! I am looking for discussion/explanation here and am NOT hating at all so I hope it does not come off that way! I am interested at your word choice when it comes to the Broken Sleep piece. That piece is discussing a waking period in the middle of night, but you are discussing not sleeping at all until the morning. You seem to be equating them as the same concept. A natural circadian rhythm would definitely not keep you up through the night and send you to bed when the sun comes out, as light is the main indicator for your circadian rhythm about bedtime/morning time. From what I'm understanding, you think modern day life is keeping you from your "natural" sleep pattern of going to bed at 4am and being able to get an appropriate amount of sleep. While I agree that modern day life doesn't allow for different sleep schedules, I don't think a 4am-12pm sleep schedule would ever be considered driven by a natural circadian rhythm. Interested in your thoughts on whether it is truly the same to wake up for an hour or two around 4am before going back to bed, vs staying up completely until 4am! Loved this piece!!!

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